I have been posting and reading recently on this site. I read Divorce Remedy. I think that the strategies for self-improvement and detachment in the book make a lot of sense. There are a lot of well-intentioned people on this site. I am finding this site to be a comfort and a source of strength.
I am looking for input from someone who has undergone the journey from the point at which a divorce looked certain and who has returned to a healthy marital relationship. Maybe people who have done that no longer feel a need to post items on this site. I don't know. I would like to hear some examples from folks who have utilized the divorce busting strategies and who have reconciled with the spouse.
DB worked for me. My marriage is much smarter, healthier and mature. Dbing is not easy. Eventually your spouse has to be willing to work on the relationship as well for a reconciliation. Cheers Coach
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.