Hey Kerry,

It is strange how we can hang on to the good memories and at the same time realize that our Xs are cheaters and liars. I for one have difficulty (still) believing that the mother of my child turned into the person she is. I sense that you are more sure than I am of your X's character flaws. in spite of that you remain accomodating (as do I). I wonder how all this would have played out if we were the WASs....anyhow, glad you had a good time with lady#2. You will know in time if their is mutual interest. For the time being enjoy the ride. That should be our motto in life in general......