Beepee: Good luck. Aliveandkicking's reponse makes a lot of sense. Relax and take your time. Give it at least 24 hours so that you can contemplate whatever you decide to do. This must be very tough getting an email and finding out that it is a Dear John letter. It sounds like he's conflicted. Try not to push him away.
M 57 W 52 Married 12, Together 14 No kids by this marriage 2nd marriage for both