Beepee:
Good luck. Aliveandkicking's reponse makes a lot of sense. Relax and take your time. Give it at least 24 hours so that you can contemplate whatever you decide to do. This must be very tough getting an email and finding out that it is a Dear John letter. It sounds like he's conflicted. Try not to push him away.


M 57
W 52
Married 12, Together 14
No kids by this marriage
2nd marriage for both