Hello everyone, thanks to all who responded to me, I really appreciate everyone's advice.

Well, this weekend, strong signs of OW are coming out. Ha! No wonder he "doesn't love me the way a husband should love a wife." He's got a brand new unblemished 24 year old to hang out with. How nice. After 14 months of being strung along and lied to, I think I am ready to drop the rope.