Oh bills.....yes do forward those to her. I thought you meant just personal emails from others.
I think I really did stir you up! I wasn't trying to ruin your day. I did, however, want you to see this from an outsider's POV. When you are hurting so badly in a stitch, it's often hard to see the reality of it.
I think what you wanted to say to her about the schedule is fine. I don't know about the word "distraction" or not. That is the only part that I would be hesitant. Maybe say something to the effect that it is important to keep the kids in as stuctured environment as possible since the S and having a scheduled visitation seems fair to everyone. However, sound like "you" and not me. If you've already sent that message, then don't worry about it. Not trying to play on "words" that much. Just thinking like a woman...lol.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
