This is an open question, not a criticism.

I have been posting and reading recently on this site. I read Divorce Remedy. I think that the strategies for self-improvement and detachment in the book make a lot of sense. There are a lot of well-intentioned people on this site. I am finding this site to be a comfort and a source of strength.

I am looking for input from someone who has undergone the journey from the point at which a divorce looked certain and who has returned to a healthy marital relationship. Maybe people who have done that no longer feel a need to post items on this site. I don't know. I would like to hear some examples from folks who have utilized the divorce busting strategies and who have reconciled with the spouse.


M 57
W 52
Married 12, Together 14
No kids by this marriage
2nd marriage for both