Sandi, it was good to hear your perspective on your H on Drew's thread. It was interesting to hear your observations of him and his changes as well as your own recognition that 'he is what he is'. It's food for thought for those of us who are dealing with WAS's.
Hey Sandi there is some innapropriate talk happening between my w and an old college friend of hers.. Would love to hear from you.. I'm pretty flippin' peeved about it too.. its in newcomers "EA and I'm livid"
Hi back at ya! Glad you all found my place! Don't have a lot of updating in my stitch, but do need a place to hang out and have others to come by.
My H and I are doing better and better as time goes by. I have found a new doctor that is working with me on some dificient levels of.....well, different things... LOL. Anyway, I feel like it is helping, but should get even better. That's a lot to look forward to. That is one reason I talk to the guys a lot about their W needing to get their hormones checked by a specialist. It was hard to find the right doctor and I almost gave up. So, happy that I found him and that I was not imagining things. There really was a lot of things wrong with my health that probably had a lot to do with my feelings......or rather, lack of feelings toward my H. I had been feeling really bad for a long time, but I guess I just thought it was due to......age or whatever....you know how we make excuses for how we feel. Maybe that doesn't sound right and I'm not saying that it was the cause of my EA....not at all. However, I have had "problems" for many years and especially since my surgery. So.....here's hoping for good things to come. My energy level is up and I'm feeling better. Still have the Fibromyalgia to deal with, but can handle that better when other parts are working...
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
Glad you are doing better. I hope to get my M to a place where I can talk to my W about having her hormones checked. Not the cause of her wanting to walk away, but she is in early menopause, and I do not think that is helping in the cirrent situation.
I wonder if you would mind dropping past my thread Eye of the Storm in Newcombers when you have a chance?
My H seemed to be moving in a good direction but now seems to have pulled back and I feel like he is about to run. Would love to see what you thought and how I should be playing things.
LOL. Anyway, I feel like it is helping, but should get even better. That's a lot to look forward to. That is one reason I talk to the guys a lot about their W needing to get their hormones checked by a specialist. It was hard to find the 