You really handled it much better than I could have when I saw all the emails to/from OW! That is when (knowing me) I would have had to point out a perfect example of what an EA is!
They won't look at their reality (case in point), b/c they want to pretend and fantasize. That's why it was a shock to his system when you left last weekend. I think that is why 180's work well for a lot of people. The WAS needs a series of shocks.....and when the LBS does 180's, it keeps them (WAS) off balance and their focus off the OP and onto the LBS.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
