Well, if I tell him he can't work on his computer, I can't very well complain about him not giving me money.
But, I see that until all of our things are physically separated, there will be excuses.
In the narcissist paradigm, H is wounded because of my disapproval and seeks it desperately.
My part, I'm so wounded by my own childhood, I can't seem to close the door on a possible R...and saving the marriage. But, I realize that I need space and boundaries so desperately.
I am super pissed off right now. And he succeeds at making me question, Gee, what's my problem? Kids freaking out, no money, no job, and H constantly reaffirming that it was my fault...why am I not a shiny happy person around him?
