I recall you laid down a boundary about no ML while he's still involved with OW. I take it he does not know you know about his txt's to OW where he used the pet name? Are you wrestling with whether you tell him or not you know?
He doesn't have a clue I know about the texting. I saw them in the middle of the night last night. I had to confirm he hadn't stopped contact as he had claimed.
I don't know if I'm wresting with that exactly. More like with the entire issue of him being here while still talking with OW, giving himself emotionally to her all the while feeding me all the BS about how confused he is, how he can't live like this etc... It feels like he's stringing me along. Granted, I have set boundaries, which I am proud of, and thus far they are being followed. Maybe I am on the right track. I just don't like being in a depressed funk like I feel right now.
Perhaps I need to say flat out "An emotional affair is not acceptable." But then what? I'm just confused (now I sound like H!)
Me: 39 H: 39 S: 15 M: 18 years Bomb: 6/3/09 H moved out: 10/15/09 H moved back:5/30/10
