Sandi2, Coach, Puppy and Gucci help!

[Bravehardt]

I have a real quick question for anyone looking.
Bounderies.........

The W has just text me the follow(What time will D 6 be home. I want to see her today.)

Now please understand, the W last saw D 6 a week ago Friday, and has not called her since Monday.

She tried to set up something Sunday for Monday but it conflicted with my schedule.D 14 told me W drops by house unannounced that evening.


On Tuesday the W text me 10am. (Is it ok to come over this afternoon. See kids and spend the night?)The Kids were already gone for the day and we had plans that night. I did not see text till 3:00 my reply at 7:00 (lmk a couple of days in advance. tonite is not good.)

I get a texted on Thursday, same thing can I come see the D 6 tonite. They are out of town till Friday at my Moms. I tell the W this during a phone call.

Friday D 14 told me W drops by house unannounced that afternoon hang out for a few hours by pool, takes all my cold beer and leaves. I don't get home till 6 with D 6 and wife is gone oh well.

D 6 calls her Saturday and just gets her voice mail, shes crushed. Thats why I don't have her call her mom unless she ask to do it.(W tried to make me feel bad once by saying its my responsibility to have D 6 call her.)

So back to my boundery question.

I have plans with kids this afternoon. W just expects us to be sitting around. Should I tell her again to let me know her schedule a couple of days in advance and we can make the appropriate arrangement for her to visit her children.

Let me know how some of you handle this sitch.