I would spend the time any chance I got wit the Greek when we were seperated. You are not dealing with a OM, she asked you out, she wants to go to MC (agenda not clear though) and it is a opportunity for you SP.
I would be reluctant to include the kids. Our MC told us if we seperated not to do things with the kids because it confuses them. Plus it's kinda like cake eating, Mrs SP gets all the fun and warmth of family life without the commitment.
Going out with Mrs SP plan.
- Arrive second
- Be "on" - looks, mojo, attitude, and confidence
- Make it all about her (think first date): be engaging, a gentleman, active listening, let her touch you
- Sit next to her not across from her
- Have conversation starters and know the ROE
- Watch for your triggers and don't take the bait from her
- View this as a challenge (You can handle it)
- Be the first to leave

"Leave them wanting more." - Col Tom Parker

Cheers

M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12
Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.