But it's odd. The DB challenge of taking responsibility for yourself really seems to make the Other's unwillingness to do the same stand out in high relief.
Yes, Yes, and Yes
Which then makes you want to switch from focusing on yourself to trying to get the other person to focus on themselves...
...which brings us back to square 1.
Been wondering that myself - when do you reach a point (if ever) where you can't just keep focusing on yourself. Where you can't move forward and improve things by yourself any more without the other person making at least some effort.
Reminder to self...Focus on Yourself
Me 42, W 39, S8, S6, S2 M 11y, A & ILYBNILWY 11/08 Walking away from a bad situation.
