I suppose I went waaaaayyyy off the deep end.
I'm sorry for divuldging so much frantic info v/s the basic, important info.

I've been going through this for a long time by myself.

Distracted 1978
Me - 30
H - 28
D - 13, 8, 7
S - 21 months
SS - 6

My Bomb to him 10/26/2008
Separated (physically) 03/15/2009
Filed for legal separation 10/01/2009

No longer distracted!