Oh, I know - I always say something along the lines of "It's been a difficult few years for both of us, and he's going through something on his own right now, and I'm trying to have patience and compassion for whatever it is..." I don't really badmouth him or anything. I have a close friend or two that I vent to when I need to let out the anger, but for our mutual friends and family I try to be decent...
Me - 30, H - 32 T - 10, M - 6, D - 1 DD#1 - 4, DD#2 - 2 on/off OW 4/09 - sometime Summer 2010 (Told me about OW 4/10) Separated 6/11/09, divorced 8/4/10, trying again 9/2011
