Trying to cope with H, IA/EA (was Newbie-1st post)

[Faith2010]

Thanks Hoosier - you broke it down into workable pieces for me. One thing each day is much easier than trying to figure out: should I take dance lessons then worrying about how to find where they are, how much they cost etc... Baby steps, that I can manage.

I didn't mention in my earlier post but it keeps replaying in my mind. In a text to OW, H called her a nickname he has used for me since our S was born. I've never heard him call anyone else that name, not even his own mother. Cut to the core.