Opperate out of a calm spirit but let her know you mean business when you tell her that you do not know how long you can live with a woman who is disrespectful to her H and gives her heart to another man, contacts him, stays out late, etc. Don't let her tell you it has nothing to do with you and that it's about "her"....b/c it has EVERYTHING to do about you and her M.
Excellent advice Sandi - advice I can use in my own sitch.
Me: 39 H: 39 S: 15 M: 18 years Bomb: 6/3/09 H moved out: 10/15/09 H moved back:5/30/10