ohh, he offered to shank your husband? I'm assuming you declined the offer?
I know your friends are mad at him, but try to keep it quiet. I know it's hard....my H is living on the golf course where we both socialize a lot and you're pregnant and he moved out, but I've learned that if I don't get into it with folks....for example "i can't believe he is dumb enough to leave you!!" I say "It's a spot, but we're working on things for us. We'll be ok." I keep it vague while acknowledging it sucks but not putting blame on him. I know that as stuff like that got back to my H it shocked him and now I think it's making things easier that I wasn't this crazy angry woman to our friends and people we just sort of know.....know what I mean?
Yeah I want to kick your H too, but try to stop other people from passing judgment....I think you'll be glad in the end when you two reconcile.
