Re: People not knowing or understanding how to apologise.
I don't believe most people have ever witnessed an apology that was sincere - a act of forgiveness or true compassion. Can you think of a time you witnessed your parents or a person in authority do this? So when you apologise, forgive and show compassion to your beloved you are modeling healthy adult behavior to them, possibly for the first time in real life. It takes a secure person to model this as well. It is a act of love is uncomfortable at first. Doubt/fear creeps in to derail the act. Does it make me look weak, do I lose my advantage by doing this, and will I be accepted (known, seen, heard)? What appears to be a vunerable position is actually strong. It is also a healthy sign of detaching. Keep it up guys.
Cheers
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
