No not quite but it looks like the road it is going down. Either way I feel disrepected. I am still her friend on FB and still her spouse and I am seeing them talking more and more and it is obvious they are getting closer. I figure at the very least I need to set some sort of boundary here.
I am thinking about asking her about it and saying that though I can't control it or her they should keep things in private and not expose me to their replies and posts to each other on FB. I want her to know that I feel it is innapropriate and not respectful to me. After all boundaries were an issue in our R. I am the co-dependent type and I know I need to stop being that way for my own sake. I am sure I need to sit on this idea until I get more advice and that is of course what I plan to do.
