It seems like everytime you talk about a conversation with your wife, she cries about something. I'm beginning to wonder if she isn't chronically depressed. I would expect greater emotional strength from a woman toying with affairs. If she can't handle normal day to day life, how does she expect to cope with potential love and loss in the dating scene? It is a meat-market out there. Has she seen a doctor about depression?
It is true. Every R discussion ends with classic signs of depression. She cries, has no answers to any of my follow up questions. Asked what she is thinking about or what she is feeling, her standard answer is "I don't know", and then she ends the discussion by saying "I'm too tired, crawling into bed and falling asleep."
She refuses to discuss depression, however, or consider anti-depressants. Her answer when I brought it up: "This isn't something you can cure with a pill"
Me 42, W 39, S8, S6, S2 M 11y, A & ILYBNILWY 11/08 Walking away from a bad situation.