how would she respond to these statements? You are withdrawing from your spouse. (definitely) You are preoccupied and daydream about your friend more and more. (well they certainly talk more now than when me and W were together) You are not interested in being intimate with your spouse, either emotionally or sexually. (yes) The amount of time you and your spouse spend together is less. (yes) When confronted about the apparent emotional affair, you respond, "We're just friends." (not sure.. have not confronted) You find yourself anticipating when you can communicate or be with your friend again. Alone time together is important to you. (not sure) You are sharing your thoughts, feelings, and problems with your friend instead of your spouse. (I wouldn't doubt it) You find reasons to give your friend personal gifts. (sort of - they exchange links on FB that they think they would like) Your friend seems to understand you better than your spouse does. (my spouse says we are not on the same wavelength) You are keeping your friendship a secret from your spouse. (no I knew they were always friends and I know they talk to each other a lot more)
