since ow has been acting out, his routine of coming to see son on specific days has gone out the window. the man is so routine, never forgets to come and always plans ahead. now, he cannot commit to days. last night, he couldnt commit to today and couldnt commit to the weekend. very very very unusual...
me: 31 H:29 Son:5 m:8 years in november t:10 years first bomb: 10/06 moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08 ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06 d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08 moved home:3/09 out again 5/09
Hi Doodles, I imagine her acting out is probably wreaking havoc on his whole routine and order based existence. I wonder how long until he has had enough. When you get your phone records, do you plan on showing him them, or bringing it up again at all?
When is family court?
Have a great weekend!
I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...
i have no intention of showing him or mentioning the phone calls again. i intend to use them for legal purposes and if she starts up once more, if she calls once more, im taking it to the police.
its one thing if she calls and hangs up alot, i wouldnt take action. its another when she uses my phone number on more than one occasion to make it look like im calling people.
he never even called yesterday. son left him a message in the morning, never called, never came. completely out of character. 100% completely out of character. even in this mlc situation, not like him.
i must choose between 2 apts today or tomorrow and am having trouble. with one apt, it is $400 less, but i would need storage for furniture and have less living space for son to play. with the storage plus utilities not included, i dont know how big the price difference is anymore.
me: 31 H:29 Son:5 m:8 years in november t:10 years first bomb: 10/06 moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08 ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06 d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08 moved home:3/09 out again 5/09
i posted under mlc what happend with psycho - summary- i was at a party with my son last night, i got a text picture message from an internet service (she likes to send things that way) of my husband and psycho ow.
then she called, i answered, she said either, stop calling her or stop calling him, idont understand her all that well.
i havent called her and u cant tell me not to call my husband.
she called again and said nothing when i answered.
who knows what today will bring but i am bringing this to the attention of the authorities.
me: 31 H:29 Son:5 m:8 years in november t:10 years first bomb: 10/06 moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08 ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06 d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08 moved home:3/09 out again 5/09
Although I was formerly in the "ignore her and don't give her the satisfaction" camp, I think I've changed my mind. She's starting to get into "bunny-boiling" territory now; a picture of the two of them, together, is a little creepy.
im going to the authorities, its aggravated harassment, a misdemeanor. if i didnt have my son with me now, i would be there already.
did i mention my husbands's cell phone called me at 1130 last night? something tells me it wasnt him.
me: 31 H:29 Son:5 m:8 years in november t:10 years first bomb: 10/06 moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08 ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06 d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08 moved home:3/09 out again 5/09
really just like that from an iphone? interesting. they are trying to make it illegal.
i sent h a text this morning telling him i saw that i missed a call from his cell at 1130 pm and how weird it is that he didnt call me at home at that time.
now, if he made the call, he will call again to tell me what he wanted. if he didnt, he will know now that someone did.
me: 31 H:29 Son:5 m:8 years in november t:10 years first bomb: 10/06 moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08 ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06 d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08 moved home:3/09 out again 5/09
