Welcome aboard. You have come to the right place I promise.
You seem to have been doing very well in handling your sitch. You seem to be a natural at it
Getting right to the nitty-gritty I can see one change that might have triggered the withdrawal you felt.
Up until that point you were both just being free and easy, no pressure of any kind. Just having fun together. Boy is that so important.
And then - pressure...
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I asked him if I should go see the movie myself, or if we should wait and see it as a family.
I don't see the reason of going quiet. You just need to steer things back just one step. This may be hard depending on how big a land-mine your H thinks it was. Baby steps. Do what you were doing but not to much. Don't overdo things and check the results out.
