Ahhh, drew7 - have you seen the photo's and video? Been to the same restaurant? Followed them in the car? I'm not suggesting you do these things - just trying to make a point. Assumption is a bugger of a thing. It'll eat your mind.
Originally Posted By: drew7
I finally logged onto FB after 3 weeks of being dim and I have noticed some comments between them that border on flirtation (you make me smile) and many of the exchanges (humorous ones) remind me of communication I had between my W and I when we first started dating. It feels innapropriate to me so it must be.
Are you sure that you're not reading to much into these exchanges.
Originally Posted By: drew7
I was hanging out with a friend for a couple of hours and I asked him to define an affair.. he said "if your wife is seeking out something from someone that she should be getting from her husband then it is cheating".. yes.. exactly..
I may be very very wrong, but nothing in this first post screams EA to me. If I'd have seen any of this happening between my W and someone on FB the only thing this may trigger is a touch of husbandly jealousy.
Originally Posted By: drew7
ok.. I am ready to hear some advice now from people that have had to put up with this BS. I am ready to confront this woman and move forward. I am tired of being fearful and I am glad that I logged on to FB even though it confirmed my worst fears.
drew7 - please provide a bit more history of your sitch.
Advice for now -
1. Take DEEP breaths (always a good idea) 2. Don't do anything until you've "talked" to the guys here. 3. Keep your cool whatever happens. 4. Do some GALing to take your mind off things whizzing round that head of yours.
