I looked at her, really focused on her, and smiled. She looked taken aback and asked "Why are you smiling at me?", to which I replied "Because the sun is shining, it's a beautiful day, the boys are playing, and I'm happy". She broke down crying and asked "Then why does that just make me feel so miserable?"
It seems like everytime you talk about a conversation with your wife, she cries about something. I'm beginning to wonder if she isn't chronically depressed. I would expect greater emotional strength from a woman toying with affairs. If she can't handle normal day to day life, how does she expect to cope with potential love and loss in the dating scene? It is a meat-market out there. Has she seen a doctor about depression?
