Does anyone really know if this Divorcebusting really works where one person in the relationship can truly make a difference and bring the couple really back together?
As I sit here and type once more again after reading my own posts, posts from others, responses to posts, etc., the majority of it is all negative. I rarely can find a success story. Am I not looking in the right place. I even have been searching other websites to no avail in finding any other theories or philosophies that one person can make a difference. Most indicate it takes two or it won't succeed.
I have been so-called divorcebusting for over three years now. She still has not changed her position that wants away from me. I still feel like she is having an affair. The goal really achieved thus far to date is that we are still under the same roof. The challenge or the pain is that there is no intimacy. I get no reception to hugs and kisses and if we ever do ML it is because I initiated and she finally gave in to me with no passion or nothing from her as far as attempts to please me.
I am beginning to feel that all the time, energy, money, and effort has been for nothing as far as keeping the relationship together. The only positive is that I still get to see my kids everyday, but they are becoming more and more like their mother, cold, unreceptive to affection, negative, aggressive, etc. I am becoming emotionally and physically drained by trying to be upbeat, positive, and always showing love to everyone.
