My wife and an old school chum are having an EA. I finally logged onto FB after 3 weeks of being dim and I have noticed some comments between them that border on flirtation (you make me smile) and many of the exchanges (humorous ones) remind me of communication I had between my W and I when we first started dating. It feels innapropriate to me so it must be.
I was hanging out with a friend for a couple of hours and I asked him to define an affair.. he said "if your wife is seeking out something from someone that she should be getting from her husband then it is cheating".. yes.. exactly..
ok.. I am ready to hear some advice now from people that have had to put up with this BS. I am ready to confront this woman and move forward. I am tired of being fearful and I am glad that I logged on to FB even though it confirmed my worst fears.
