Mrs. Thinker and I have had a couple of nights in a row of pretty intense discussions. No major changes or breakthroughs. I made my position clear - permanent limbo is unacceptable, and D is no longer frightening. She continues to try to avoid everything.
She is clear that she does not want a D right now, but continues to wish for a separation - ie for her to be able to stay here with her life unchanged and me to just disappear for an undetermined period of time. She lamented that this is not financially feasible. Also, neither of us is willing to move out, so a separation would logistically be the same as a D.
She say's she has now ended the sexual texts with both OM2 and OM3 - told both it can't and won't continue. For my own sanity I am neither trusting nor checking right now.
I'm too tired to really analyze or discuss right now.
We did have a great day hiking with the boys today - good healthy family fun for all. I haven't seen them that happy in a long time.
Me 42, W 39, S8, S6, S2 M 11y, A & ILYBNILWY 11/08 Walking away from a bad situation.
