"Women do not like controlling men. They respect and are attracted to men who control themselves. They ultimately are repelled by men who allow themselves to be controlled." -S&A
I love your quote Spellfire.
As a 39 year old woman, divorced for 2 years, living a new fulfilling life, where I meet lots of men, but not one I like enough yet to get serious with - this is one of the biggest issues I run into with men.
My observation is that the men I meet fall into 1 of 2 categories
1. Control freaks - who usually haven't recognised the extent of their controlling behaviour; and 2. Men who want to be controlled - some to the extent that sometimes I think they want me to be their mother - believe me there is nothing less sexy than a man who wants to be mothered.
I firmly believe there are men out there who understand how to control themselves and are able to bring that controlled, but uncontrolling self, to a relationship ... I'll let you know if I fall over him!!!
What's S&A?
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Never make someone a priority, who makes you an option.
