Well the bday party went well. He was nice but not overly.... Seemed to be in a hurry so we only spent 1 1/2 hrs there.
My sister-in-law called tonight & told me that he called mad after the party & was saying that if I wanted a D then I would have to file...also he had his other son for the party & he was crying to stay the night but H wouldn't let him??? I know he loves his children deeply but I also think he's doing the same selfish acts I was when it was me. I hope this mess makes sense. I took our kids to the pool today & sent him a pic of our son playing & all he said was "looks like he's having fun".
I honestly don't understand. If he wants to DB then why is he so distant? I think if it were me I'd be there no matter what.
I guess I see the signs b/c of what I done & know that I should face my truth..... He's just so indecisive all the time. tells one thing, shows another... Maybe I did this to him...,
Distracted 1978 Me - 30 H - 28 D - 13, 8, 7 S - 21 months SS - 6
My Bomb to him 10/26/2008 Separated (physically) 03/15/2009 Filed for legal separation 10/01/2009
