Well, I got caught reading DR and now I'm an Ahole for reading a book about divorce. Trying to explain it was a waste. Anyone else have this? Maybe I will just leave it out now, but I think that would be wrong.
I am so with you! I told my wife the books were about relationships and solutions based therapy techniques (she saw what I was reading before I actually started DB'ing) We need to get phony dust jacket's so our spouses don't know what we're reading. I now put the books out of sight, and transfer my solutions journal to a memory stick. If she wants to snoop, my own journal only has some simple stuff in it like "Do no harm", and things like that.
Hang in there buddy! Try to get centered and find a little time for yourself to let it all out. Be strong, and remember that your fighting for the both of you.
