WAW Using God

[pigskin]

Call her EA what it is: an affair. I avoided doing that, avoided confronting until about a year after the bomb, and my H honestly thinks he did nothing wrong and (since his feelings have changed to only friendship *roll eyes here*) should be able to continue a limited friendship.

He refuses to accept the word affair now, no matter what I show him about EAs (and his was one sided, though women know these things and I know she sucked up the attention for her pathetic ego). I am 3-years past bomb, and we are still dealing with limited contact, and I think a lot of that is because I played his game and didn't call it what it was from the start.

I told him last night that he needed to choose: no contact, or get the F out of my house, because I didn't care about "less", I only cared about none. If he was going to put that friendship--no matter HOW innocent--over my feelings and our M, I didn't want him in my life. No matter how he thinks I should feel.

Call it what it is. Don't avoid it. It's wrong BECAUSE IT'S DETRIMENTAL TO YOUR R. Period. No matter how innocent it might be.

Truth should never be feared. Truth, always, should be embraced. Your W is putting this R above her M, period.

SD

Yep, thanks SDFoundGirl. I intend to call it that from now on.