Originally Posted By: Ashlee
why does it have to hurt so bad
We all wish we had the answer to that for you, Ash.

I've been using this phrase a lot lately. On this forum and to myself:
The pain becomes suffering only when we don't accept it.

Gardener

"My soul, be satisfied with flowers,
With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them
In the one garden you may call your own."
Cyrano deBergerac