Do nothing. 48 Hour Rule. If it is a good course of action, it will still be so this time Monday. Time is always your friend.
Except: it's boundary time again. Now. She should not be accessible for your son to see. Period. He can put in his list of who can see and add one of those "Except For" entries or whatever it's called. Not a discussion. Tell him you expect him to do so promptly.
Breathe. Rant here if you must rant.
You've been DBing so admirably. Don't give him power over you, your emotions, your (re)actions.
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac
