I hope I have the power to change things. I'm working on improving myself (paying off debt, anger management classes, counseling). I hope that if I save myself, I can save the marriage,

Thanks for the advice - Confusion is a great teacher, methinks.

Me: 35
W: 31
D10, S7, S2, S11 months
M: 11 years
Tricked into separation.
In Last Resort.

My story:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1800530#Post180053