WAW Using God

[pigskin]

I like that.

One question: What do you CALL her EA when you talk to her? "Your affair"? "Your relationship with ______" .... what?

Hi pup. I call it various things, usually try not to be hurtful. Just allusions to what it is, like "this thing over our heads" or "this thing going on", or "it", or "your involvement with him". Stuff like that. Not sure if that is right, since it might make the EA seem in our discussions to her like something hypothetical or general and not something real, damaging, and hurtful.

After our discussion we ran separate errands and she bought me a small item I like, which made me feel good, and made me feel close to her. But she's still tending to two gardens at once...