As I failed miserably on the intimacy issue this week, I figure I`ll reverse the goals for this week. I was looking for compliments and intimacy-I`m gonna hand them to H first.
So here are my goals for the week
1.Agreeing whole heartedly with H when he criticizes me for doing something."You are so right and I`m really working to change that"
2.Compliment him on something.
3.Get into his personal space in a non intimidatory way-just relax in his space just briefly.
On my GAl goals, I`m going to
Work on my genealogy project everyday. Walk/cycle yoga every day Paint son`s room Play tennis with the kids and their playdates. Go away for a night on my own at the week end(H is taking the kids to his folks) Bone up on my tax sitch(H used to take care of that) Have neighbours in for coffee Contact two old friends Get dressed to the nines every day. Read a book Contact my book club buddies with date for get together Start painting again(as in art, not walls!)
