You`re so ahead of the game Storm Rider. I would never have tought of anticipating R talk if it weren`t for you. No harm to have something figured Mindblank. And to be ready to really listen and validate.
Sometimes I wonder that if we look like we`re enjoying the limboland living too much that our H`s might begin to think we`re happy with a half marriage and begin to pull further away. Like if we`re GALing, looking great, always light hearted and smiling aren`t we being a bit unreal and dishonest too?I`ve felt like shredding my H`s shirts, throwing arsenic in his food, feeding him in small pieces to a shoal of pirahna fish all the space of one day this week!And when he`s not around I just crash out as I haven`t the energy for anything after all my DB efforts and putting up with his anger.
Maybe with your D moving out Mindblank your H can see time passing and realise he`s got to make the most of being with you and the kids.Whatever it is there seems to be a shift in things.Glad you`re doing so well and enjoying yourself!
