I am pretty sure that since what I've been doing hasn't worked--being friendly, being a friend, being a wife, that I should try the LRT and go very dim (dim, not dark, because we have a son and a huge expensive monstrosity of a house that we cannot sell and I cannot maintain myself.

I will go dim with the expectation that we are done, but leave the door open a crack?

Any suggestions on how to go dim and maintain it?

We've been spending so much time together, I guess I need to make a clean break here.

Would love to hear from the dim posters. Thanks!