thank you all so very much!!! You have given me so much to think about. I am going out of town for my work next week and am kinda relieved to be able to get out of the house and away from the drama.

I did apologize to husband yesterday, spend about 30 minutes trying to decide exactly what to say. I said it and he replied..well grab me a coke out of the fridge and all is forgiven...maybe he was not really that upset about it...who knows..I have no idea who he is anymore.

I am sorry that I have hijacked your thread, almost. But I have been given new hope and determination....hopefully that will last through next week smile

here is my post....http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Main=43586&Number=1803109#Post1803109


M:38
H:42
T:20 M:19
D:18 S:17
MLC: Sometime in 2007
OW Bomb 1: 12/28/07
OW Online relationship 2: Spring 2009
Told him I wanted D: May 10, 2009
D final: 07/09/11