Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
Just yesterday you went on about how you're standing for your M, etc. you post the standers affirmation and everything. And about how you still consider yourself M even after a D.
Then today you talk about a girl who was flirting with you? And you wonder about her? And mention how attractive she is.
Seriously?
How transparent can you be. If you are that weak that you can't even maintain a thought for a day, how do you intend to last another year or even another month.
What do you want?
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
Just yesterday you went on about how you're standing for your M, etc. you post the standers affirmation and everything. And about how you still consider yourself M even after a D.
Then today you talk about a girl who was flirting with you? And you wonder about her? And mention how attractive she is.
Seriously?
Huh !?! I don't run to the defenses of this guy much ...but come on if you
How transparent can you be. If you are that weak that you can't even maintain a thought for a day, how do you intend to last another year or even another month.
I don't run to this guy's defenses ordinarily but if you are gonna choose to use him as a punching bag make it for a legitimate reason ..would ya.
In no way shape or form did I detect any sorta impropriety from his comments about this female bystander that he noticed. That was the extent of it. Maybe some are putting there own slant on things and doing a bit too much reading of words/thoughts that are not spoken or expressed.
I am not wondering about her in terms of is she an option. What I was wondering is what is going through her mind simply because of the oddness of how she always acts. And when I talked to her, it was at least a month ago if not longer and she was standing right next to me and all I did was just chat for a couple of moments. Nothing more, nothing since. When walking out the door at night, I felt I was just being friendly by saying to have a good night. I then just keep walking out the door.
I don't believe I have contradicted my stand at all for my M. If I was contradicting my stand for my M, I would be considering her an option. I am not, nor will I.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
T - I agree - must be wonderful to be "needed". Boost for the old libido. Nothing wrong with that We all take that as it comes. I would also feel GREAT about that. Not a loss to the world etc.
Kev - this must have made you feel on top of the world - cherish it!
I guess it is flattering, but at the same time, I don't want to give off any wrong impressions.
I wear my wedding ring regardless of what my current circumstances with my W are.
I will trust in the Lord and do my best.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
We all take that as it comes. I would also feel GREAT about that. Not a loss to the world etc.