What I have a tough time with is that the boys "know" that it's "because" I did something "really bad". That's a tough pill to swallow when it's anything but the truth...they think the reason is because I did something bad."AlexEN
That is a tough pill to swallow.
All you can do is continue to model what a man does after he's done something bad. Or after others think he's done something bad.
This is what they will carry with them all their lives.
This you can do.
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac