great advice guys...thanks.

right now im just trying to deal with finding where to move and where son will be enrolled in school, along with selling our belongings and packing.

h is almost a side note. ow was a side note until she started lashing out. im waiting for her next move so i can act accordingly and hopefully proceed legally.

as for our separation/divorce, im not funding that battle right now, its certainly not as important as finding a place to live and putting food on the table.


me: 31
H:29
Son:5
m:8 years in november
t:10 years
first bomb: 10/06
moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08
ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06
d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08
moved home:3/09 out again 5/09