gima,
Originally Posted By: givingitmyall
Pleased with how I handled this.
I think you responded quite well, buddy. Good job
Originally Posted By: givingitmyall
OK, here comes a little mind reading - is she concerned about her job situation b/c without it, D is much more difficult for her - no $$$$ of her own to rely upon. I know what this would mean for me. In her mind, maybe she's losing power to be able to control her own destiny as much as she could with a job.
No mind reading, here, IMO. To me, it would be mindreading if you said, "...she is concerned b/c," , etc. I hear you wondering, pondering, questioning. That's not mindreading.
Originally Posted By: givingitmyall
Not trying to mind read, really just making an observation and asking a question that really has no answer

See? smile


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