Wow, a couple of you called it right. W sent me a text that said "what if I didn't want a divorce". My response was "I dont know, why". She text back saying "I don't know I was just thinking about it". I left it at that, and didn't respond.

She then called the next day telling me that she was thinking about coming home. I told her it was her choice because I never told you to leave, and that was all that was mentioned of that.


I agree that once she realized that I was done trying to fight for my marriage she now doesn't want to lose everything we have. I don't know if this is real or what. I think she knows I'm going to be fine without her. I have taken care of all the household duties by myself. I have also been making the most of my free time, and having fun.

Right now I'm not sure if I want her back. Untill the other day we hadn't spoke in over a week, and I was fine with that. I will not make any decisions right now, and will just sit back and see what happens.

Paul


me 34
W 37
three kids 9 13 17
married 14 years together 15
well the bomb has been dropped a few times
most recent was early June