Hey Almost, I just want to explain something. I agree that there are things we have all done in our marriages that were hurtful and we should apologize for them.
But, we've seen where some start to think that things are all their fault. And while Kelly should absolutely validate her h's feelings by sayng she is sorry he feels that way about her going away, she needs to realize that that is not going to fix things because that is not really the problem.
What Braveheart said is true. We have to accept that our old marriage is gone. If we do get a second chance, it will be for a new marriage hopefully with two people who have grown and changed.
