Don't get a D period if both of you don't want to. You have to learn to fall in love again and become attracted to each other. There are obviously still strong feelings between the two of you. A lot of people on this board would love to be in the position you are in right now. Understand what you have and build from there. You can do it. Learn to be each others friends again, learn to talk to one another. Become recreational companions. Remember how you carried yourself when you first started dating one another.