Another note.....

Age doesn't matter. At 22 or (like here) 44. The OW are simply engaged with married men and for that they are untrusting. They will do desperate things to protect "their investment" or "looking out for their best interest".

They are not respectful people at all.

They behave like "High School Teenagers". They are "Catty". They cannot be trusted. You are a threat to their security. They will resort to stalking, verbal abuse and even physical abuse. I have personnally experienced all three from OW here. I have told you some of this already.

Think back yourself to your high school days and the dramas over boyfriends. Back then (a long time ago) I can remember girls having fist fights and hair pulling and the language OMG over a boy!!! This is the OW now. They are all grown up, and they have thrown themselves, by choice, into a lifestyle of affairs with married men with children and with that comes immaturity and selfish egotistical behaviors.

There is no difference.

You need to release yourself from the drama. You need to instead be the mature grown up woman, mother and wife you are.
You be the better person.



ME48/H48MLC
T 33y
M 28y
S16
OW 8/7/05
Bomb 8/16/05
Sep 9/05
H f'd D 10/3/08
D pp'd 1/20/09,7/24/09,12/4/09
D dismissed 2/5/10
H served me D papers again 9/4/10
D dismissed 9/26/11