Maybe I should have simply stated that he's a CONTROL FREAK!!!
I had to ask before purchasing anything, even clothes for the kids for school. Anytime I wanted to buy new clothes for myself he'd take me to my closet and ask why I needed them when I already had plenty.... I'm not a shopaholic BTW I may shop 2x a year and spend a couple hundred $.....


Distracted 1978
Me - 30
H - 28
D - 13, 8, 7
S - 21 months
SS - 6

My Bomb to him 10/26/2008
Separated (physically) 03/15/2009
Filed for legal separation 10/01/2009

No longer distracted!